I find I'm still a little confused about what a GFE entails. What does a good GFE experience feature? Is it a certain number of things or more of an overall experience?
Good question. GFE means "girl friend experience." In my book the time spent together should not be rushed and the time together should be more intimate too. If I want a quick one with nothing great going on I can go to my wife.
GFE means different things to different people, and I usually classify a girl as a GFE based on our chemistry together. The chemistry is a combination of attitude, service, performance and location. On the service end of it I like a girl who allows kissing and does not have many, if any, 'rules' to follow. I also like it when the woman seems to be enjoying herself instead of just going through the motions. Last, but not least, it should not be a 'rushed' session with mulitples allowed and I get the 'full hour' even if the last part of it is a massage or just talking.
I think I'd define GFE (girlfriend experience) as when the girl behaves like my girlfriend or like the girlfriend I'd dream of having. There is physical contant not always available (french kissing) but there is "real" or the appearance of "real" closeness, love and affection. There is however brief, some emotional intimacy. This obviously dictates that she is not a clock watcher, a robot or a PSE (porn star experience).
I get a kick out of people that say GFE somehow means "anything goes"...I dunno if those guys ever HAD a girlfriend...but I never had an SO that believed in anything and everything...GFE, to me, means the girlfriend experience I fantasized about that I could now have w/ my provider...not the real life gfe, which is chock full o' limitations...
I think everyone is touching on the right points in this thread but it is still missing some conciseness. Seems like people have a tough time defining a GFE and that leads to disappointments when we arrange to see a GFE and she doesn't do what we think she will. My definition of GFE, and I think it is a good one includes the following services/features:
Unrushed and Friendly-She really seems like she is enjoying her time with you. Clockwatchers are never GFE
DFK-Anyone who questions this has never had a girlfriend. For me the most important part about a GFE is deep kissing and lots of heated fondling and groping.
BBBJ-If any of you ever had a girlfriend that did CBJ I hope you aren't still with her! Seriously though, BBBJ has got to be included in the service if it is to be considered GFE. I had many girlfriends in the past who didn't swallow so that isn't a necessity as far as I'm concerned.
DATY- This should definitely be on the menu for the session to be considered a GFE.
I think those are the most important things that make up a GFE. Those who say that Greek or facials should be included are wrong as that would be a PSE type session IMO.
As a provider, I do offer the GFE ... I don't rush, I never watch the clock, I allow us enough time to enjoy eachothers company, I always start with a massage, which gives us time to talk and get the connection going - and then let him take over from there, what he wants, in most cases, I will do. My GFE sessions are not "no rules anything goes" sessions ... but, if he's enjoying himself, so am I ... every provider has rules and no-nos ... and the massage allows us both to get to know those limits. I aim to please, and that should be the way every provider sees it ... but unfortunately, most don't.
For me the Girl Friend Experience (GFE) includes at least the following...
A great GFE experience is when it doesn't feel forced or when it doesn't feel like a session at all, but rather a pleasant sexual experience.
Good question. GFE means "girl friend experience." In my book the time spent together should not be rushed and the time together should be more intimate too. If I want a quick one with nothing great going on I can go to my wife.
GFE means different things to different people, and I usually classify a girl as a GFE based on our chemistry together. The chemistry is a combination of attitude, service, performance and location. On the service end of it I like a girl who allows kissing and does not have many, if any, 'rules' to follow. I also like it when the woman seems to be enjoying herself instead of just going through the motions. Last, but not least, it should not be a 'rushed' session with mulitples allowed and I get the 'full hour' even if the last part of it is a massage or just talking.
Just My $0.02,
Aliados
I think I'd define GFE (girlfriend experience) as when the girl behaves like my girlfriend or like the girlfriend I'd dream of having. There is physical contant not always available (french kissing) but there is "real" or the appearance of "real" closeness, love and affection. There is however brief, some emotional intimacy. This obviously dictates that she is not a clock watcher, a robot or a PSE (porn star experience).
I think everyone is touching on the right points in this thread but it is still missing some conciseness. Seems like people have a tough time defining a GFE and that leads to disappointments when we arrange to see a GFE and she doesn't do what we think she will. My definition of GFE, and I think it is a good one includes the following services/features:
Unrushed and Friendly-She really seems like she is enjoying her time with you. Clockwatchers are never GFE
DFK-Anyone who questions this has never had a girlfriend. For me the most important part about a GFE is deep kissing and lots of heated fondling and groping.
BBBJ-If any of you ever had a girlfriend that did CBJ I hope you aren't still with her! Seriously though, BBBJ has got to be included in the service if it is to be considered GFE. I had many girlfriends in the past who didn't swallow so that isn't a necessity as far as I'm concerned.
DATY- This should definitely be on the menu for the session to be considered a GFE.
I think those are the most important things that make up a GFE. Those who say that Greek or facials should be included are wrong as that would be a PSE type session IMO.
As a provider, I do offer the GFE ... I don't rush, I never watch the clock, I allow us enough time to enjoy eachothers company, I always start with a massage, which gives us time to talk and get the connection going - and then let him take over from there, what he wants, in most cases, I will do. My GFE sessions are not "no rules anything goes" sessions ... but, if he's enjoying himself, so am I ... every provider has rules and no-nos ... and the massage allows us both to get to know those limits. I aim to please, and that should be the way every provider sees it ... but unfortunately, most don't.